In our life we see so many usual and
unusual, certain and uncertain all kind of things happen. It isn’t so easy to
predict the upcoming moment, the next movement of time. We face all these kind
of things in our daily life. And it is not in our hand to change the demand of
the time. We have to walk with it and to do so we should learn how to react on
new situations, how to act upon new situations. What most important thing that
helps us to get involved into the scene is to let us take a step along with the
demand of time. It depends on us how we going to take such step. One thing that
I always keep in mind that “here in this planet everything happening with a
good cause. There is always something very good hides in every happening,
non-happening.” And the other quotation that says “Every dark is not so harmful
and every sunshine is not so useful.”
It
does not mean that we should change our life goals with the change of time.
Even we should have a crystal clear idea that what are our life goals. We do
not need to change our targets with time but can change the way we are trying
to go through to achieve the targets. Sometimes we face very uncomfortable
situations like we are trying to escape from something that we may think is not
good for us but instead of getting far we found it in our every foot step. What
to do in such faces of life? How to react or act upon these situations? Should
we accept it or try to abandon?
There
may be so many questions rise as cited above in mind that may make the problem
more complicated. Let us take an example about this.
A person ‘X’ who faced the pain to fall in
love and breakup, thinks that he should never fall in love again with anybody
or he doesn’t need any such thing like ‘love’ in his life. He thinks that like
last time he may be cheated by way of love. He decided not to repeat such story
again in his life. He has so many friends and from all of them he share things
or share time with ‘Y’ more comfortably. They spend few years in same way and
suddenly X has to go away from Y for some time in a place from where he cannot
get connected or contacted to Y. In those days he started to feel that there is
something missing in his life and to know the reason he learns the situation
and as a result he get this is all because of the absence of his friend Y. and
let assume Y also started to feel in same way that is she feels so lonely
because the absence of X.
After
sometime they get back into contact. And this time they started to talk in very
different ways. They started to care each other and in between X feels he
fallen in love with Y. but he doesn’t tell the same to Y. he thought it would
be better if they will live as a close friend rather than as lovers. But very
soon he proposed by his that same friend i.e. Y. Now X feels he has no option
than accept her proposal as he also feels a strong love feeling for her. Now the
situation that is just taken place is totally opposite from what he usually
used to think. He tried to escape from love but he failed in doing so. Now
should he regret for the situation or should he move with it?
I
think to live happily he should move with it if he have the true trust on his
partner Y. if he think that may be Y will left him alone in future or will not be loyal to him then he should choose
further option. There may be something good in it which will start give some happy
results near future. We have the problem signifies that we have the answer too.
We just need to give some time to it and to solve complication.
That
was very normal situation that can be taken place in anybody’s life. Similarly
there may be so many problems like this and some of them may be more serious,
more panic and more effective. No matter how hard the time is. The only need is
to understand the situations in right sense by giving some time to it. To avail
the good in every bad one should be proactive and a positive thinker. Life is a
long road that sometimes gives you a smooth ride and some time a bumpy one. If
there is a bumpy one that it is sign of the smooth one is just ahead and if
smooth one then it will give a better experience in all aspects. But if we are
riding in the smooth road we also need to be preparing for the rainy days. we should always value our time as if once the time lost it'd be never found.
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