I was at office. There was no work to do so all of us were getting together and started to talk about our lives. Everybody was talking about what kind of life they have and what kind of things they are facing in there day to day life. There was all kind of people. Some were very keen listener that they are focusing on what the other person was trying to say and some were so impatience and in hurry to talk as they were interrupting others before they finished. I was silent and was trying to see what all going there. I started think about this matter deeply and found that the guys who were not only giving others to finish their talks but also listening them carefully are more aware of all things than those who had no interest in listening other. They definitely know about others as they listened them. They can understand things in far better way.
Then I got few things that I have read somewhere about a good listener. Actually a good listener always get a good relation every where he or she go. The reason is so simple. One listen other means he is giving time to them to explore themselves and also trying to emphasize the situations. He know the value of words, he know what is the intension of others when they are talking about something. Being a human being it is a great thing to realize the others situations and that is only possible if we try to hear people around us. Most of us believe to deliver our thoughts, talks to the world but one essential thing we always forget is that to accept what the other world trying to deliver. Suppose if all people behave in same way then what will the value be remain to explore our hearts or our minds.
There are so many significance of being a good listener. It gives a strong bonding between people around us. It gives a sharp knowledge of the next personality. It always helps us to know what kind of situation the other individual is facing and is it possible that sometime in near future we are going to face the same. Actually the matter is that there are a lot of advantages of being a good listener. It changes the way we think or we saw other actions. One good listener must alert his mind all the time to analysis the happening that someone going to tell. Actually we should always try to apply once the same thing in imaginations and then try to learn what is new that can help us to become a good person or to live a life happily. We should always keep one thing in our mind that everyone around here to teach us something special, something very new and something very important.
A good listener becomes a great personality one day as he almost tries to learn from every walk, from every talk. There are a lot of things that are just there to teach us the story of life. The need is to accept the good things from everywhere, from every new experience. People around us give their experience in so many ways. We may feel bore sometime or we may feel the irritation but if there is something to earn then it never came in easy way. We have to do some sacrifices for all things. Give and take is so essential part of everybody’s life. But if there is something that makes us feel so bad then we should avoid the same in front of others when we share our views.
Life is more than what you think. It is a greatest teacher of all the time. Why to go anywhere to learn something good for life if we can get the same from our own life. And be a good listener never means not to share what we have. Infect we are the greatest people of this planet and it’s our duty to help others too being a great one. Coordination with our social is so important because we know we are nothing without social. So time to change the way we think. Come Let us listen the world. Let’s learn something new. Let us teach them too…
